If Aliens as scientists think they exist would ever by
chance pay a visit to our planet, they would definitely keep it as short as
possible, count days to their departure and pledge to never return again. Mind
you, our Earth is beautiful and has a huge chest to accommodate anyone but the
life form settled here a long time ago has some serious problems that even regarded
as Homo sapiens, sometimes negate the rudimentary definition of being wise.
Human beings are curious and nosy instinctively; born with this defect their
overindulgence and intrusive disposition at times do much harm instead infusion
of good in the life of the creature they are deeply in concern with. Their
unwanted attention and eagerness to help vex the other party and worsen the
situation more.
A lot of people don’t have enough capacity to tolerate such interference and at some point get frustrated and do something that is not
within the boundaries of decency. Some people really mind their own business
while there is a cluster that finds it fun to meddle in the life of others. Is
it the feeling of importance that compels them to have a say in the matters of
others or it’s just a juicy gossip for which it’s done or for the claim to know
it first or for the sake of rumor circulation and entertaining circles to get the
lead of the show, or for faking sympathy and show off a pseudo concern to the
world, at any rate the motive behind is shrouded in mystery. It is noticeable
when the worry is genuine but with a pretty face and sugar coated words the
intentions are barely to deceive someone and detected right away at the moment
of initiation.
We don’t realize how much pain it would cause to the other
person and how bad one feels after being pointed out and confronted with the
miseries or weaknesses that are beyond one’s control to fix or change. It’s not
the script of some spicy soap airing on Television, its real life where it
hurts when hit.
Any attempt of breaching someone’s privacy is an act of violation, could be judged as a potential threat and instigate prompt reaction. Often I have been a subject of questions that left me upset, shocked and irritated. The anxiousness of some people leaves me in wonder, who dares to demand such answers without taking privacy into account. To my utter disappointment, I have my fair share of such encounters. It’s like every day that I experience a new drama on my table, dished out in a decorative way, hard to swallow and digest. A countless number of times I have been inquired about my prolonged stay at home and closing doors to work. And before I could gather thoughts to do justice with the question put forward, I am hurled at with another one of asking how I manage to stick long at home and not getting bored at the same time, and soon afterwards a storm, with unsolicited words directs towards me, of reconsidering this decision, of wasted my time, money and education, of blaming me for taking away someone’s place and comparing me with a guy who in my place would have conquered the world. The next stream of interrogation flows in when my single status comes under spotlight. In typical society, where I have been raised, every girl is born to get tied, since her childhood every penny is saved in paying for the dowry and throughout adolescence is fed with the garbage of tying knot as if it is the sole purpose of her existence, dreaded by the factor of age, appropriate suitors and sometimes under external pressure she is forced to sign such a bond, in a place like this it is deemed not less than a crime to be of 26 years and single. The punishment is to torture with troubling statements time and again, are you getting married, when you are about to take marriage seriously, It’s already too late and bunch of others followed by a series of unrequested advises.
Any attempt of breaching someone’s privacy is an act of violation, could be judged as a potential threat and instigate prompt reaction. Often I have been a subject of questions that left me upset, shocked and irritated. The anxiousness of some people leaves me in wonder, who dares to demand such answers without taking privacy into account. To my utter disappointment, I have my fair share of such encounters. It’s like every day that I experience a new drama on my table, dished out in a decorative way, hard to swallow and digest. A countless number of times I have been inquired about my prolonged stay at home and closing doors to work. And before I could gather thoughts to do justice with the question put forward, I am hurled at with another one of asking how I manage to stick long at home and not getting bored at the same time, and soon afterwards a storm, with unsolicited words directs towards me, of reconsidering this decision, of wasted my time, money and education, of blaming me for taking away someone’s place and comparing me with a guy who in my place would have conquered the world. The next stream of interrogation flows in when my single status comes under spotlight. In typical society, where I have been raised, every girl is born to get tied, since her childhood every penny is saved in paying for the dowry and throughout adolescence is fed with the garbage of tying knot as if it is the sole purpose of her existence, dreaded by the factor of age, appropriate suitors and sometimes under external pressure she is forced to sign such a bond, in a place like this it is deemed not less than a crime to be of 26 years and single. The punishment is to torture with troubling statements time and again, are you getting married, when you are about to take marriage seriously, It’s already too late and bunch of others followed by a series of unrequested advises.
It’s out of
comprehension when one is blessed in so many ways; indulge into affairs of
prying, passing judgements and envying others. What’s easy to get for some is
even hard to imagine for others but that makes life fair. We all have our equal
share of ups and down, pleasure and pain, good and bad days. We don’t know what’s
in store for us and when the tables turn? Then what is the bargain in
criticizing and judging people if we stand on the same ground, share the same
air, eat and excrete and entirely unaware of what future beholds. We have a
common denominator of blessings received each day, differently and with an
exception of timings, and yet man by nature is unthankful and greedy, compares
and complains about whatever petty that lacks in his life. I am articulating my
mind because I am bestowed with the power of sewing my thoughts into words and
you with the courtesy of your vision and understanding of your brain are
reading it with fluency. I and you are blessed but again in different arenas.
There are so many things to be grateful for but why we keep pinpointing the one
that is missing?
So we need to see through this fact that we should let others live the way they want to, if we ourselves want to enjoy freedom…
So we need to see through this fact that we should let others live the way they want to, if we ourselves want to enjoy freedom…
I’ll end on this note…
"If God even judges a man at the end of his days how can you and I judge him during his days?"
"If God even judges a man at the end of his days how can you and I judge him during his days?"
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